• The way you tell your story can make all the difference !

  • Everyone has their unique life journey. I'm here not to interfere, but to walk alongside you, guiding you through the twists and turns that come your way.

    Valentina-Soul Soothing Psychology

  • Any loss you experience for speaking truth isn't loss, its alignment.

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  • You'll get what you're available for, and that's all you'll get...

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  • True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake. it is making the choice to build a life you don't need to regularly escape from.

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  • “Embrace the beauty of your ever-evolving story. Reflecting what feels right for right now. The rest will take care of itself. It always does.”

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  • What is EMDR?

    EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, is a therapeutic approach designed to help individuals process distressing memories and overcome the negative effects of traumatic experiences. Developed by Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s, EMDR has gained widespread recognition as an effective method for addressing various psychological challenges.

    Key Components of EMDR

    1. Assessment: The therapist works with the client to identify specific memories or experiences causing distress and explores associated negative beliefs.

    2. Desensitization: During this phase, the client recalls the distressing memory while simultaneously focusing on bilateral stimulation, often achieved through guided eye movements or other rhythmic stimuli.

    3. Installation: Positive beliefs are reinforced, replacing negative thoughts associated with the traumatic memory. This step helps build resilience and a more positive self-perception.

    4. Body Scan: The therapist assists the client in addressing any residual physical tension or discomfort related to the targeted memory.

    5. Closure: The session concludes by ensuring the client is in a stable state, and any unfinished processing is addressed.

    Benefits of EMDR

    1. Trauma Resolution: EMDR is particularly effective in treating post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and trauma-related symptoms, allowing individuals to process and integrate difficult experiences.

    2. Accelerated Healing: EMDR often yields faster results compared to traditional talk therapy, making it a time-efficient option for those seeking relief from distressing memories.

    3. Reduced Emotional Reactivity: Clients often report a decrease in emotional intensity associated with distressing memories, leading to improved emotional regulation.

    4. Increased Self-Efficacy: EMDR helps individuals develop a greater sense of control and empowerment over their emotions and responses to triggering situations.

    5. Versatility: While initially developed for trauma, EMDR has been successfully applied to a range of issues, including anxiety, depression, phobias, and performance-related concerns.

    EMDR is typically conducted over several sessions, and the number of sessions required can vary depending on the individual’s specific needs and the complexity of their trauma. The goal is to help the individual process traumatic memories, reduce their emotional impact, and promote healing and adaptive coping. EMDR is often used in conjunction with other therapeutic approaches as part of a comprehensive treatment plan. It should be administered by a trained and licensed EMDR therapist.

    Reach out today at 07 4440 0008.

    I am so excited to embark on this transformative path with you.

  • What is EMDR intensive?

    EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) intensives are a specialised kind of therapy that provides efficient results by targeting specific issues or themes. Unlike traditional therapy sessions that are spread out over weeks or months, intensives offer longer session lengths, ranging from half a day to two days, to work through issues to resolution in a concentrated amount of time.

    EMDR intensives are not weekly recurring therapy sessions. They are personalized treatment plans that are designed to support your preferred schedule and timeline for your treatment goals. During a consultation, we will work together to determine the type of intensive and length that best suits your history and goals.

    What are the benefits of doing an EMDR Intensive?

    The benefits of doing an EMDR intensive are numerous. Clients often experience relief from their pain and resolve issues and barriers in just one intensive session. The concentrated and focused nature of intensives allows us to “go deep” and stay there until we reach the other side of the target, without starting and stopping multiple times. This results in faster and more efficient therapy, saving you months and years of traditional therapy.

    Another benefit of EMDR intensives is the ability to skip the waitlist and have faster access to select spots. The personalized treatment plans are designed to fit your schedule and provide a cost-effective option as the work is highly focused and efficient, maximizing the therapeutic outcome.

    EMDR Intensives offer time and money savings, faster increases in life satisfaction, and faster elimination of suffering.

    EMDR Intensive Schedule: Half-Day Program

    Includes: 5 therapy hours + resources/ assessments/ customised treatment workbook

    $1200

    -Pre-consultation Assessments to identify symptoms you’d like to alleviate, your attachment style, areas of activation or triggers, memories or experiences that still need attention and soothing

    -Personalized treatment workbook, which allows you to work on your treatment goals before and after EMDR intensive sessions

    -Customized 3-hour EMDR Intensive

    -Post-treatment interview to assess and support your adaption to positive changes from treatment

    EMDR Intensive Schedule: Full-Day Program

    -Includes: 10 therapy hours + resources/ assessments/ customised treatment workbook

    $1920

    -Pre-consultation Assessments to identify symptoms you’d like to alleviate, your attachment style, areas of activation or triggers, memories or experiences that still need attention and soothing

    -Personalized treatment workbook, which allows you to work on your treatment goals before and after EMDR intensive sessions

    -Customised 6-hour EMDR Intensive spread over 2 days

    -Post-treatment interview to assess and support your adaption to positive changes from treatment

    EMDR is not just for trauma; it is also used for performance enhancement to excel in areas such as athletics, business, and relationships.

    Reach out today at 07 4440 0008.

    I am so excited to embark on this transformative path with you.

  • Unlocking Comprehensive Care: Introducing Adjunct EMDR Therapy

    Hey Fellow Therapists,

    Have you ever encountered challenges in addressing persistent trauma symptoms working with a client? Flashbacks, nightmares, intrusive thoughts—sound familiar? Despite your best efforts, it's evident that these issues extend outside your typical area of focus. You know they could use some trauma work, but you also know there is still so much that you have to offer them. Do you refer them out or keep working and doing your best to address their trauma symptoms - even though you feel a little out of your depth? Why should you have to choose? Why can’t it be both! This is where I come in teaming with you to offer Adjunct EMDR Therapy.

    Discover the Power of Adjunct EMDR Therapy.

    I believe in a dynamic therapeutic collaboration. Picture yourself, the primary therapist, joining forces with Valentina to deliver unparalleled care. Your client, already under your guidance, gains the advantage of addressing specific concerns with the additional expertise of an EMDR therapist. Sessions can seamlessly occur concurrently or involve a brief pause in your care while they delve into the focused EMDR intervention.

    How does this collaboration work?

    You and Valentina collaborate to craft a personalised treatment plan. With the client's consent, you coordinate schedules that suit their needs. Once the agreed-upon Adjunct EMDR Therapy timeframe concludes, the client returns exclusively to your care.

    Why is Adjunct EMDR helpful to clients and clinicians?

    Adjunct EMDR Therapy creates a treatment team of different strengths and expertise. While I can offer trauma therapy, I do not have extensive knowledge of other concerns like eating disorders or OCD. Partnering with other therapists helps clients get the very best care for all the complexities they are dealing with. We serve our clients better when we work together.

    It's simple: when therapists join forces, clients receive the absolute best care.

    Let's enhance the way we serve our clients—by working together! For more details on Adjunct EMDR Therapy, feel free to reach out to Valentina.

  • Welcome to a transformative journey – one that’s all about understanding yourself on a deeper level and crafting the life you’ve always envisioned. Individual counselling is more than just therapy; it’s an opportunity for profound insights and enduring change.

    Unlock Your Story: Past and Present

    Counseling is your gateway to exploring your inner world, spanning both your past experiences and your current situation. Within this safe and supportive environment, we’ll delve into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, piecing together the puzzle of how they shape your unique path.

    Uncover the Roots, Create Lasting Change

    What sets my counseling apart is our commitment to delving deeper. I'm not content with surface-level solutions – I aim to uncover the core of your challenges. By addressing the root causes, we're setting the foundation for lasting and meaningful transformations in your life.

    Empowerment Through Tools and Techniques

    But that’s not all. I believe in arming you with practical tools to move forward and design the life you’ve been yearning for. From coping strategies to effective communication techniques, you will have the skills you need to navigate obstacles and achieve your goals.

    Tailored to You: Your Unique Journey

    No two journeys are alike. That’s why my approach to therapy is highly personalized. We collaborate to design a treatment plan that aligns with your values and aspirations. Throughout this process, expect clarity, insights, and the empowerment to embark on a more fulfilling path.

    Our Expertise, Your Peace of Mind

    I can guide you through a range of mental health challenges and help you deal with common issues such as:

    -Adjusting to life stressors and changes

    -Anxiety and Stress

    -Chronic pain

    -Commitment and intimacy issues

    -Confidence, self-esteem, and self-worth

    -Depression and low mood

    -Grief and Loss

    -Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

    -Relationship difficulties

    -Trauma

    -Weight loss and weight management

    A Tapestry of Approaches

    In the world of therapy, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. That’s why I integrate a variety of therapeutic approaches including Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Schema Therapy, and Clinical Hypnosis -all aimed at offering you the best shot at a fulfilling life.

    Let’s Begin Your Journey

    Ready to dive into self-discovery, growth, and a more rewarding life? It all starts with a simple conversation.

    Reach out today at 07 4440 0008.

    I am so excited to embark on this transformative path with you.

  • About the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP)

    Developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, author of the Polyvagal Theory, the SSP is an evidence-based auditory intervention that uses filtered music to stimulate the vagus nerve and promote physiological safety.

    The SSP stimulates the vagus nerve, through filtered music, helping you to connect with yourself, others, and the world from a foundation of physiological safety.

    Suitable for children and adults, the SSP has demonstrated benefits for individuals with trauma, anxiety, sensory processing differences, and more.

    The Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) is safe, effective, and enjoyable for children and adolescents, and it’s shown to:

    -decrease anxiety and trauma-related behaviours

    -decrease auditory sensitivities

    -enhance social engagement and participation

    -improve emotional regulation

    -increase resilience

    -improve attention, concentration, and focus

    -improve gut health and digestive-related issues

    -promote a calmer emotional and physiological state

    -improves long COVID symptoms

    How is the Safe and Sound Protocol Administered?

    The Safe and Sound Protocol is delivered via a phone app that plays specially filtered music through over-the-ear headphones.

    While listening, you will engage in a relaxing non-verbal activity (colouring in, drawing etc….) and/or rest. As the purpose is to support feeling safe, have with you any “props” that will make your experience more comfortable (special blankets, etc.).

    SSP Package

    $999

    -Assessment

    -Education about the nervous system and SSP

    -SSP Core program and workbook

    -We listen to all of hour one and three together

    -Check-in sessions during hours two, four, and five of your SSP intervention

    -30-day access to follow-up music (SSP Balance) to extend the benefits of the 5-hour program

    -6-week follow-up session

    Reach out today at 07 4440 0008.

    I am so excited to embark on this transformative path with you.

Hey there,

I am Valentina, the face and heart behind Soul Soothing Psychology.

A passionate believer in the power of healing and resilience.

I understand that life's journey can sometimes leave us with emotional scars. My mission is to provide a compassionate and empowering space for individuals seeking solace, growth, and transformation.

Let's embark on this journey together!